
The Unraveled Knot: Parents Who Sever Ties With Their Children

There is an ancient proverb that says, “Like an uncut thread, a child is connected to its parent.” Yet, the world is filled with threads that have been intentionally snipped. Contrary to the popular narrative of children moving away and severing ties with their parents, sometimes it is the parents who take that dramatic step.
Why would a parent choose to break the most primal bond? Let’s delve into this lesser-explored realm of familial relationships.

Germain / Unsplash / Parents do severe ties with their children sometimes. And it is one of the worst experiences.
The Myth of “Forever Connected”
From fairy tales to modern TV series, we are often sold the concept that families are unbreakable units. All destined to stick together through thick and thin. While there is undeniable beauty in these stories, they mask the varied reasons parents might sever ties with their offspring.
Sometimes, the separation is not out of malevolence but an act of deep care and concern.
The Whys: Unraveling the Complex Reasons
Here are some of the common reasons that lead to a parent severing ties with his children:
- Protection from Toxicity: Not all children grow up to be saints. Some develop patterns of behavior that are abusive or manipulative. In these situations, parents might see disconnection as a form of self-preservation.
- Pressure from External Sources: Families are not always just about parents and children. Sometimes, new spouses or other family members might exert pressure on parents to sever ties due to conflicts, jealousies, or misunderstandings.

Monstera / Pexels / Studies show that children and parents are NOT destined to stick together through thick and thin.
- Unresolved Traumas: Past traumas, be they related to incidents in childhood or otherwise, might cause so much strain that a parent finds it more peaceful to sever the bond.
- Clash of Life Views: This might sound minor, but deep ideological differences can cause rifts. A parent’s or child’s choices in life, be it in terms of career, relationships, or lifestyle, might be so diametrically opposed that it becomes a bone of contention.
- Financial Strains: Money, as they say, is often the root of many disputes. Parents might choose to disconnect if they feel that their child is exploiting them financially.
Hidden Consequences: It’s Not as Simple as Snipping A Thread
You might be wondering, “Okay, so a parent decides to move away. That is their choice, right?” While it is certainly anyone’s right to decide who remains in their life, the act of severing ties carries hidden consequences.

Kindel / Pexels / Toxicity, external pressure, and unresolved traumas are some of the biggest reasons why some parents disconnect from their children.
To begin with, there is an emotional toll. It is a myth that parents who disconnect do not care. They often grapple with guilt, sorrow, and second-guessing. Likewise, society does not look kindly on these parents and the societal judgment can be piercing. Questions like “How could you abandon your child?” or “What kind of parent does that?” become an everyday ordeal.
Wrapping Up: Threads, Once Cut, Can Still Be Re-knotted
Parents severing ties with their children is a complex issue, and no single story fits all. Judgments come easy, but understanding takes effort.
In the intricate tapestry of human relationships, it Is essential to remember that every thread has its own story, its own reasons, and its own journey. The next time you come across such a story, pause, reflect, and remember the myriad reasons behind those severed ties.
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